Jackie Kennedy: quiet leadership

  • By The Alchemist About Town
  • 01 Mar, 2017

#TheWomanAlchemist #feature

Last week I went to see Jackie Kennedy's biopic which reminded me how much I admired her and the influence she had and continues to have in my personal and professional life.

The movie itself is poetry in motion and focuses on the assassination of John F. Kennedy but from the perspective of his widow, her poised appearance, showing the will required to keep control in the worst of circumstances. 

The result is a gorgeous, multi layered portrait of a woman determined to put public image ahead of private feelings and Natalie Portman is absolutely superb in her interpretation.

The movie shows the different layers of Jackie’s character , a vision of affectation and depth, images of the inevitable pain that comes at this time: Jackie showering off her husband’s blood, Jackie’s face in the window of a car that reflects droves of bystanders, Jackie changing into her red dress to dance in sorrow to ‘Camelot’.

Behind the scenes one can see her refusal to change clothes on the flight back to Washington to let Americans see the blood; her refusal to take sleeping pills that might dull her capacity to arrange the funeral, whose planning she dominated. She stipulated the riderless horse in the procession and the eternal flame by the grave at Arlington.

In public, what the world saw was a figure of admirable self-control, a black-veiled widow who walked beside the coffin with her head up, who reminded 3-year-old John Jr. to salute at the service and who looked with dignity on the proceedings. 

You may ask why is she #TheWomanAlchemist for March? She is not a woman in business, or in politics or an entrepreneur. True. She was a wife, mother , above of all, a woman .

For me she was an example of quiet but effective and impactful leadership.
Jacqueline ( her actual name pronounced à la française ) was well-bred, well-read, well-traveled, a Francophile, a woman who spoke in that soft breathy whisper that movie stars used at the time. It was a voice refined in an era when girls were groomed to hide their intelligence not to  frighten men away.

She became influential in terms of culture by raising America's profile abroad and showing the necessity to have a cultural life. She raised it by raising the standards and she did so by example - beauty , brilliance and having the best of the best in the White House.
She had the quiet confidence of her intelligence and innate sense that she could accomplish anything she set out to.

She loved history and understood people's need for heroes and the necessity of pageantry and symbols, a master at shaping public appearance she privately moulded John F Kennedy's public persona in that she:

  • played a vital role in reshaping the modern presidency by popularising the Camelot image. 
  • was behind the modern look of Air Force One ( persuaded the government to paint “United States of America” on the plane).
  • redecorated the Oval Office, giving it an elegant homey feel 
  • created the manicured Rose Garden on the grounds of the White House as it's known today
  • drove the restoration of the White House

She devoted much of her life making him into the great president he so badly always wanted to be.
She coined the epitaph of the Kennedy Administration  - Camelot -- a magic moment in American history,  from a song JFK loved most  . . . 'Don't let it be forgot, that once there was a spot, for one brief shining moment that was known as Camelot...


 . . There'll never be another Camelot again."

In making the attempt, no matter the result, she encouraged others to raise their expectations and to consider what is possible, whatever their situation in life.

Personally she was an example on how you can make the best out of your circumstances, with dignity, whilst under extreme pressure; on how  you can create your life " as you want it to be".
Professionally she provided me a "roadmap" on how it is actually possible to shape culture, quietly but with relentless determination  and "to lead without leading", having impact and influence without people even realising and still achieve your objectives.
And finally , from a fashion point of view, her style was and is timeless.


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By The Alchemist About Town 22 Sep, 2017
I am so utterly delighted that my book is now out, available to order both on paperback and on Kindle edition just in time for Business Women's Day - YES!!!!!! :-) 

STOP IT! It's all in your head   is my labour of love and my way to encourage, inspire and empower women to achieve what they want professionally and not be confined by societal, religious, family paradigms of what " women should do/are like" and, most importantly, the restrictions in their head.
If that is being CEO of a Global Company or a stay-at-mum or Director of Paperclip ( whatever grabs your fancy) so be it.

Writing this book was also a personal challenge ( the 30 days thingy) which confirmed to me once and for all that you can really do whatever you set your mind to, if you really want to that is.

Couple of tips for writing a book from me:
  • write about what you are passionate about, you know more than you think.
  • free-write about the parts/chapters in the book you like the most and you are most interested in first - that will give you a great boost at the beginning - you can edit and add the boring bits later - by then most of the book will be almost there
  • keep your own voice - write as you speak so to speak ( people do need to understand you though..)
  • keep an open mind, ideas will flow into you mid-way through the project
  • a deadline and going public is good to beat procrastination ( but if that stresses you out too much don't do it) - the deadline certainly helped me.
You can do it too!!!

If anyone would like to be part of the book launch, the event is live on Eventbrite and you can buy an Early Bird ticket now:
SMASH YOUR CEILING - #STOPITBookLaunch 
Thursday 12 October at 18.30
Business Design Centre
Islington
London

To pre- e-meet other super fab women in business attending the event, please use the following hashtags:
#SMASHYOURCEILING
#STOPITBookLaunch
#BDCWorks

I'm so excited about this book and I genuinely hope you will like it- I hope to meet you soon, in person or through the pages of my book.

Laura x


#Hustle #GirlBoss #SmashThatCeiling
  #SmashYourCeiling
STOP IT! It's all in your head 
#dreambig #believe #youcan



By The Alchemist About Town 19 Sep, 2017
The time is getting closer and closer to the release of   STOP IT, It's all in your head   my new book ( 22 September for Business Women's Day - US) .

I have now  received the proof copy of the paperback which looks absolutely fabulous: a couple of things to correct but overall I am super happy with the result.
A lot of marketing to do now between Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Google+ ( which is PS: looking like more work than the actual writing of the book).

The book event/launch/talk is live on Eventbrite and you can buy an Early Bird ticket now:
SMASH YOUR CEILING - #STOPITBookLaunch 
Thursday 12 October at 18.30
Business Design Centre
Islington
London

To pre- e-meet other super fab women in business attending the event, please use the following hashtags:
#SMASHYOURCEILING
#STOPITBookLaunch
#BDCWorks

I'm so excited about this book and I genuinely hope you will like it.

Laura x


#Hustle #GirlBoss #SmashThatCeiling
  #SmashYourCeiling
STOP IT! It's all in your head 
#dreambig #believe #youcan



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