What Does “Being Magnetic” Mean To You? Decide: You Are In Control – Be Your Best Self – A Daily Practice To Silence Your Inner Critic
being magnetic
Published on March 16, 2022
published on March 16, 2022

ThePeopleAlchemist Edit: #SmashYourCeiling, change starts from within – Business & Lifestyle Experimentation for #TheWomanAlchemist – Being magnetic


Hello again.

Today I’d like to talk about what being magnetic is all about and how it works.

In short, whatever thoughts you’re holding, cultivating, and creating within, is what will reflect you in your life, in your relationships, and the world.




If you think you are attractive, what you’ll receive from the outside world is confirmation that you’re attractive.
And if you think you are connected, what you’ll get from the outside world is confirmation that you’re connected with experiences and relationships that feel connected. And so on. The outside is always a reflection of what’s happening inside of you.

You control and decide exactly who you want to be and how you feel.

So, how do you want to be treated? How do you want to be seen?

These questions will lead you to discover what “being magnetic” means to you.




I like to choose different things in different areas of my life and business.
Sometimes, I like to be soft and playful – more feminine. Other times I want to be poised, sophisticated, and elegant.
And yet other times, I’m in the mood to be empowered, strong, rebel-like, and fierce.
All of these are who I am. But they’re just different expressions of my inner self. And I can cultivate any of these within myself, any time I want.

What’s important to realise about this is that people will see and respond to me differently depending on what I embody.
Remember, all of these qualities/attributes are me – I’m not pretending to be someone I’m not. I’m simply embodying different expressions of myself – what feels MOST TRUE at any given moment. And
each of these expressions calls forth different reactions and experiences in my life.




Another thing that’s important to note is I choose who I want to be in the world because it’s what feels good TO ME. So when I ask myself, “Who do I want to be right now?” I listen to the answer and follow through. And this is an essential key to being magnetic. It has to be for you. We’re genuinely not that attractive if we’re trying to be something for someone else. But if you’re trying to impress another person, the attraction falls flat.
The key to being highly attractive to others is highly attractive to yourself!!
I don’t mean arrogantly. I mean, in a way that you truly appreciate yourself.




Firstly, to cultivate magnetism, you must first discover what “being magnetic” means for you. Secondly, ask yourself: How do you want to feel in yourself? And how do you want to be experienced by others?

Finally, whatever you decide is going to be unique to you.
All you have to do is choose. It starts from within you.

See you tomorrow x


Laura Mariani

Laura Mariani

Best Selling Author, Speaker, Change & Transformation Expert


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Laura xxx

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