Single Or Not, Why Don’t You Meet Your Needs Right Now? The Future Is Now – Be Your Best Self – A Daily Practice To Silence Your Inner Critic
Published on August 18, 2022
published on August 18, 2022

ThePeopleAlchemist Edit: #SmashYourCeiling, change starts from within – Business & Lifestyle Experimentation for #TheWomanAlchemist  – Meet your needs now



Hello there.

The singlehood theme and all its facets continue today with addressing your needs. Right here and now.

Yesterday I talked about challenging your prejudices about being single. If you have any, that is. If you are unhappy with being single, why is that? And not being unhappy because you are expected to be in a relationship.

However, if you are ( unhappy) because you are missing something and you are waiting for some undefined future to be happy, I tell you now: start meeting your needs.




Firstly I’d like to stress the “now” bit. Do not postpone your life and happiness to a future time. Whatever you are doing, you need to take opportunities to experience life daily in the now (remember Covid?).

Secondly, try to understand yourself and then please yourself. If you are yearning to be touched, why don’t book a massage? If you want a cuddle, what about family and friends? What about asking your best friend or finding a support group if you need a cheerleader? Think broadly. Whatever you are missing, think about how you can address it. Right here and right now.

But Laura, I am missing sex. OK. Some battery-operating devices do a fantastic job of providing you with plenty of pleasure. They do not kiss or make tea, but they are definitely handy ( pardon the pun)


See you tomorrow x


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Laura Mariani

Laura Mariani

Best Selling Author, Speaker, Change & Transformation Expert


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Laura xxx

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