What’s Your Family Fortune? The Self-Image One – Be Your Best Self – A Daily Practice To Silence Your Inner Critic
Published on July 8, 2021
published on July 8, 2021

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Self-image, our own portable self-limiting box, affects our body image, money and career: what’s your family fortune then? Surely not impacting family, is it?

Oh yes, it does.

Firstly our family and the relationships in it is a result of what we believe a family should be like. Secondly, of how a family should run. And finally what is our place in it.




Your parents’ failures and successes. Or your carer/s. Or single parent. Whatever it was, it defined your view and how you subconsciously feel about family and family life and relationships.

Just look around. What do you see?

You will see either a potential replica. Or, in utter defiance and rebellion, the opposite.

Either way, the program, your Self-image – The Built-in Regulator, is running you.  You might be happy with your family and all the relationships in it (I’m not talking about your partner/husband/wife/lover/significant other or whatever you call him/her. That’s for tomorrow 😉 ). Or you might not. Either way, I think it is good to understand how and why we operate the way we do.

So, what is your mirror saying back to you? What’s your family fortune then? E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G in your world reflects your mental attitude toward yourself.

You better start writing, you know the drill.

The prompt is: “The perfect family is …?”



See you tomorrow for some talk about LOVE  x







“Psycho-Cybernetics” by Maxwell Maltz.

Psycho-Cybernetics is a terminology originally coined by Dr Maxwell Maltz in the 1960s, further explained in this bestselling book. Here, Maltz explains that our self-image controls our ability or inability to achieve any goal.

In this book, you can find techniques for improving and managing self-image visualization, mental rehearsal and relaxation – a prescription for thinking and actions leading to quantifiable results—one of my 4 books of the month.

Available on Amazon.







Change starts from within; that’s why training your consciousness should be your Priority Numero 1 – a daily practice to silence your inner critic.


Laura Mariani

Laura Mariani

Best Selling Author, Speaker, Change & Transformation Expert


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